A Day of Memorial

I am a patriot. I love and appreciate all those who have traded their lives for my freedom. I'm so thankful for those who continue to serve this great country that I call home. As an Army Wife, I proudly stand beside my soldier. I know the difference between love and duty, and I respect his decision to defend any who stand beneath our flag.

What is a memorial, exactly?

A memorial is something designed to help us remember a person, place or event.

Well, that's a pretty broad explanation. Basically, anything created specifically to honor something can be considered a memorial. Anything that gives you cause to remember....

Memorial Day is a day set aside to remember our fallen service men and women...those who have defended our freedom. This is not just a free long weekend.

I ask that you take time to reflect on the sacrifice that has been made to make our country great. Remember, not only the men and women who have died in service, but those who have returned home...not fully whole in some way or another. Remember our military members who suffer from PTSD and Traumatic Brain Injury. Remember the families and spouses who said goodbye without knowing if they would see their loved one again.

And please remember to be sensitive. Memorial Day is not a happy day for most military widows and family members of the fallen. Instead of saying "Happy Memorial Day," try "thank you for your sacrifice." I promise it will be appreciated.